For each beginning it must be a willing! So you must have it! Do you like it or not, but without it you will have no positive result. Here is the most important thing is your desire. You need clearly understand what are you waiting from this date, this person, marriage or just communication, or just have a rest together.
Regarding your appearance. For some reason, many men believe that Ukrainian Women prefer only two-meter-broad-shouldered blond guys, dressed in Cardin. It is not the truth. Appearance does not play the most important role for most of the girls. 27 out of 30 women we interviewed said that the clothes and hairstyle of the guys only interested them for 10 seconds. They stopped paying attention to these things and begin to wait for any actions or words. Of course, you need to look more or less decent because sometimes your appearance can be so extravagant that the girls will be shocked.
So, you like a girl on the site. After corresponding with each other, you have decided to invite her on a first date. On their first date, try to avoid “too clever” phrases, as there is a danger that she will not understand you. In general, women love to talk more than listen, so it’s not worth to risk, better just watch it. First you need to be a very ordinary guy which will give her an opportunity to relax. Now, when she’s relaxed, let her know that you are somehow different from the others. A simple but effective way: instead of laughing along with everyone, just smile a little. Sense of humor is desirable to show, but you need to be careful. Ironically, for girls the most important thing is not your sense of humor, but her self-confidence.
Be nice to her, but don’t give her too many compliments. If you have conflicting opinions on something tell her that her side of the argument is interesting and made you look at it in a new light. Thus she will be intrigued by your positive attitude towards her, but at the same time you are not jumping around her. Let a girl think that you treat her as an equal, not as a sexual object. At the same time, you cannot make her forget that she’s a woman. Talk about her features and character traits that you like.
And anyway, what do Ukrainian Women want to hear? Compliments, kind words from the heart. Women also like to be admired. Because they are women and just nature really knows what do they really want and need.